Andy Andrew Barriger writes the Fairy Factoid© each issue, but he wanted to express his thoughts on the meaning of Memorial Day. The views expressed are strictly those of the contributor, and any commentary on this opinion piece should be directed to Andy. As the editor, I will consider every piece of writing submitted, even if it is not directly applicable to books and writing.

Memorial Freedom
an Opinion Piece

copyright by Andrew Barriger 2003


Memorial Day.  No War.


As many of you know, I generally write a column intended to bring a little humor to the lives of those who read it.  This article, however, is serious.

Those who know me would generally say I’m socially liberal and fiscally conservative, skirting the line between Democrat and Republican.  To me, what it means is I put consideration of an issue ahead of any blanket belief system.

I live in a pretty liberal part of a pretty conservative state, which as regular readers know, is Ferndale, Michigan.  I drive a foreign car because I think it’s more attractive and is built better and I wish the American automakers would get on the bandwagon and produce a better product.  Ferndale is just north of Detroit, car capital of the world.  My point is I’m not afraid to be individual.

This is Memorial Day weekend, 2003.  For most Americans, it’s the first day of summer, though summer doesn’t actually begin for almost another month.  It’s the day when we get together, drink beer, grill hot dogs and hamburgers, and enjoy the fact that, for most parts of the country, we’ve sailed through another winter, more or less unharmed.  Michigan had a tough winter, so people can be forgiven for wanting to forget it.

What concerns me is how little attention is paid to the real purpose of this long weekend.  Memorial Day is about remembering those citizens who gave their lives in defense not only of our nation, but of our way of life.  They died to protect our right to be free Americans.

What really got me thinking about this topic was a series of yard signs on the front lawns of several homes in my neighborhood.  On no less than three lawns as I drove out of the neighborhood were signs proclaiming, “No War.”  When did I see these signs?  We’re talking yesterday, here.  The signs went up while the UN and the United States and United Kingdom were discussing whether or not to go to war, then went to war, and now after the war.  No War.

I’m a firm believer in the First Amendment.  It’s often abused, often bent nearly to the breaking point, but it’s the one thing we’d rather do just about anything to keep alive.  People have the right to speak.  My neighbors have the right to speak.  I have the right to speak.  It’s what makes us uniquely American.  In fact, I feel it’s so important to know our rights that I included a copy of the Constitution and Bill of Rights on my website – they were there even before my own writing.  Stop by and have a read sometime – it’s interesting stuff.

My neighbors have the right to object to the war.  But I wonder if they stopped to consider what it is they’re objecting to?  And I wonder if they considered the impact of their objections now, on Memorial Day weekend?

Any rational person would be hard-pressed to argue Saddam Hussein and his ilk were good for the people of Iraq.  Certainly, arguments can be made that George Bush only wanted to go after him as a sort of family vendetta.  Let’s look at the bigger picture, though.

For people to be reading this article, which appears solely online, they must have a computer and an internet connection.  That belies at least a moderate income level.  In Iraq, people had to share phones, had no computers, and little or no connection to the outside world.  If they were lucky, they might have a radio that could pick signals other than those produced by the Iraqi government, who controlled all the media.  We take our freedom to share information, often instantaneously, for granted.
To me, and to many of the Americans who supported the war, this wasn’t some personal vendetta between the Bushes and the Husseins, but a war to extend our freedom, our way of life, to other human beings.  It was a war to remove a brutal and oppressive dictator from power.  When I see “No War,” it’s tantamount to saying, “leave Hussein alone.”  I wonder what kind of person would want to leave Saddam Hussein and his sons in power?

We’re not telling the Iraqis how to live, other than to live as free people.  Democracy is still a relatively new concept on this planet, and by and large, we’ve done a good job of not trying to force it on others, but Democracy’s antimatter is oppression and Democracy will rise up against it sooner or later.

So I think of my neighbors and their signs and wonder if they understand just how important those signs are.  They are the ultimate expression of why we sent our ships and our planes and our soldiers to Iraq, even in the face of world objections.  Had an Iraqi chosen to erect an antigovernment sign, he could have been imprisoned, or as was popular in Hussein’s regime, tortured and killed.  In America, we take our freedoms so for granted that it never even occurs to us that others don’t have them.  Even as the war started and raged on, people had “anti-war rallies,” which were tantamount to anti-government rallies, and all our police forced did was make sure no one got hurt.  The people were allowed to have their say.  No one in Iraq dared utter anti-war sentiments, at least not until they were sure the Husseins were gone and weren’t coming back.

Memorial Day is a time to remember those who protect our freedom, including our freedom to object to those in power.  But let’s make sure we remember who it is we’re objecting to and make sure our objections, if any, are properly placed.  During the Vietnam war, disillusionment with the government was frequently misplaced on the soldiers who fought the war.  Then, the soldiers were predominantly draftees.   Now they’re volunteer.  What does that mean?  It means that the soldiers protecting us today are doing so because it’s their choice, yet another expression of American freedom.  They could sit in their living rooms with their TV remote controls and watch the war from their arm chairs, but instead they have chosen to put their lives on the line to defend us, and to defend freedom throughout the world when our government, our people, decide it’s necessary.  Yes, we sent our brothers and sisters, sons and daughters, friends and colleagues, into harm’s way, but it’s a career they’ve chosen.  Whatever our political, cultural, or other persuasion, that deserves our respect.

There were three No War signs.  There was, however, one other sign that caught my attention – it read, “We Support Our Troops.”  Those are the signs we need more of.  Memorial Day is a good time for families to be together and for us to get a brief, welcome respite from the labors of our regular days, but we need to at least ponder, if only for a few moments, the real reason for the holiday and thank those who have served and who continue to serve to bring freedom, and ultimately peace, to this planet.


Andrew Barriger is a regular contributor to this publication and can be reached online at andrew@andrewbarriger.com or through his website, www.andrewbarriger.com.


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