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Last Time
I Wore a Dress: A Memoir
by Daphne Scholinski, Jane M. Adams, Jane Meredith Adams
Paperback, 224pp
ISBN: 1573226963
Riverhead Trade, 1998
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At
fifteen years old, Daphne Scholinski was committed to a mental
institution and awarded the dubious diagnosis of "Gender Identity
Disorder." She spent three years—and over a million dollars of
insurance—"treating" the problem...with makeup lessons and instructions
in how to walk like a girl. Daphne's story—which is, sadly, not that
unusual—has already received attention from such shows as 20/20, Dateline, Today, and Leeza. But her memoir, bound to
become a classic, tells the story in a funny, ironic, unforgettable
voice that
"isn't all
grim; Scholinski tells her story in beautifully evocative prose and
mines her experiences for every last drop of ironic humor, determined
to have the last laugh."
—Time Out, New York
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Trumpet
by Jackie Kay
Paperback, 278pp
ISBN: 0375704639
Knopf Publishing Group, 2000
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"Supremely
humane.... Kay leaves us with a broad landscape of sweet tolerance and
familial love."
—The New York Times Book Review
In her starkly beautiful and wholly unexpected tale, Jackie Kay delves
into the most intimate workings of the human heart and mind and offers
a triumphant tale of loving deception and lasting devotion.
The death of legendary jazz trumpeter Joss Moody exposes an
extraordinary secret, one that enrages his adopted son, Colman, leading
him to collude with a tabloid journalist. Besieged by the press, his
widow Millie flees to a remote Scottish village, where she seeks solace
in memories of their marriage. The reminiscences of those who knew Joss
Moody render a moving portrait of a shared life founded on an intricate
lie, one that preserved a rare, unconditional love.
SYNOPSIS
Gender and imagination converge in this exciting new literary novel.
Imagine your father dies. Terrible. Now imagine that when he dies, you
learn that he is not a he but a she. Trumpet, by award-winning poet and
dramatist Jackie Kay, is based loosely on the life of jazz great Billy
Tipton -- and it's a shocking, smart, and brilliant story of gender
identity and the strength of love.
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The Extra
Man
by Jonathan Ames
Paperback, 366
ISBN: 0671015583
Simon & Schuster Adult Publishing Group, 1999
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Louis
Ives, the narrator of The Extra Man,
fancies himself a young gentleman fashioned after his heroes in the
books of F. Scott Fitzgerald. He dresses the part - favoring neckties,
blue blazers, and sport coats. But he also has a penchant for women's
clothing, a weakness that causes him to lose his job as a teacher at a
Princeton day school after a bizarre incident involving a colleague's
brassiere. Thrust out of Princeton, he heads to New York where he rents
a cheap room in the madly discombobulated apartment of Henry Harrison,
a failed but brilliant playwright who dances alone to Ethel Merman
records, sneaks into Broadway shows, and performs with great style the
duties of a walker - an escort for the rich widows of the Upper East
Side. The two men, separated in age by more than forty years, develop a
relationship that is irascible mentor and eager apprentice, and they
form a bond the depths of which neither expected. But Louis, when he's
not with Henry, has fascinations that lead him to an unusual community
on the fringes of the sex world of Times Square. He develops a secret
life there, which he fears will be his undoing and which he must keep
hidden from Henry at all costs.
SYNOPSIS
Young Louis Ives, recently fired from his teaching position for
cross-dressing, moves to New York City on a whim and finds himself
rooming with a flamboyant, eccentric playwright. Ames's hilarious novel
follows the pair to art openings, where they pig out on free food, and
transvestite bars, where Louis's obsessions are rekindled.
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Boys like
Her: Transfictions
Foreword by Kate Bornstein,
by Ivan Coyote, Zoe Eakle, Lyndell Montgomery
Paperback, 224pp
Product Details:
ISBN: 0889740860
Press Gang Publishers, 1998
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Choosing
which public bathroom to use—men's or women's—seems a simple thing most
of us do everyday without thinking. That decision raises complex
issues, however, for a diverse and growing group of people.
"Transgender is the term that has come to refer to all those who blur
or bridge the boundary of gender expression they were assigned at
birth: cross-dressers, transsexuals, intersex people, Two Spirits,
masculine females, feminine males, drag kings, and drag queens."
Feinberg (Transgender Warriors:
Making History from Joan of Arc to RuPaul, LJ 7/96) identifies
as a "masculine, lesbian, female-to-male cross-dresser and
transgenderist." During the spring of 1997, Feinberg spoke around the
country to such groups as the Texas "T" (Transgender) Party in
Richardson, TX, where she addressed 350 heterosexual cross-dressed men
and their spouses. She stresses the need for coalitions in the
trans-liberation movement. Interspersed among adaptations of those
powerful talks are short self-portraits of a wide variety of
transgender activists. "Taste This" was formed in 1995 by a group of
four writers and performers (Anna Camilleri, Ivan Elizabeth Coyote, Zoe
Eakle, and Lyndell Montgomery), who alone or in various combinations
tell stories, play music, sing, and "sort of" dance. Their first book
is based on material originally written for performance, here
transformed into evocative narrative fiction. In her brief foreword,
Kate Bornstein refers to these stories as scary and forbidden, told
with "great dignity, great gentleness, grace, and gallantry." The
handsomely designed volume is illustrated with 75 images of the group
on the road and at home. Both titles raise consciousness about
different ways of being in the world, and each speaks eloquently to the
need for civil rights for all of us.
—Jim Van Buskirk,
San Francisco P.L.
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Danish
Girl
by David Ebershoff
Paperback, 288pp
ISBN: 0140298487
Penguin, 2001
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It
starts with a question, a simple favor asked of a husband by his wife
on an afternoon chilled by the Baltic wind while both are painting in
their studio. Her portrait model has canceled, and would he mind
slipping into women's shoes and stockings for a few moments so that she
can finish the painting on time? "Of course," he answers, "Anything at
all." With that, one of the most passionate and unusual love stories of
the twentieth century begins." "Inspired by the true story of Danish
painter Einar Wegener and his California-born wife; this tender
portrait of a marriage asks: What do you do when someone you love wants
to change? Einar dresses more and more as Lili - the name given to her
by Greta - and what started off as a game becomes a way of life for
Greta and Einar. With Lili as her muse, Greta's paintings begin to
flourish. A French art dealer spots her work and the couple moves to
Paris for the sake of Greta's career. In the permissive air of Paris
between the wars, Lili is liberated and increasingly becomes Greta's
companion on public outings. As Einar fades into memory they realize
that a choice must be made: Lili or Einar. Greta finds a
surgeon-psychologist at the Dresden Municipal Women's Clinic, and Einar
travels to Germany to become, once and for all, Lili Elbe.
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Sirena
Selena
by Mayra Santos-Febres,
Stephen Lytle (Translator)
Hardcover, 224pp
ISBN: 0312252277
Picador, 2000
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One
evening while drugged out of his mind and picking over garbage in the
backstreets of San Juan, a fifteen-year-old homeless boy is singing
boleros in a mesmerizing voice that transfixes anyone who listens.
Hearing the silken melodies coming from the alley behind her nightclub,
drag queen Martha Divine is convinced that the boy's uncanny beauty and
irresistible voice will be her ticket to fame and fortune. And so is
born the legendary performer known as Sirena Selena." "Brought by
Martha to audition for one of the luxury hotels in the Dominican
Republic, Selena casts his/her spell over Hugo Graubel, one of the
hotel's rich investors. Graubel is a powerful man in the Republic,
married with children, but hiding his true sexual nature. Sirena,
determined to escape the poverty and abuse s/he suffered as a child,
engages Graubel in a long seduction in this mordant, intensely lyrical
tragicomedy.
Boston Globe
The erotically charged language that fuels the narrative voice is a
feat, a wonder, and Santos-Febres uses it to read, in the curves and
hollows of the human body, the torment, joy and plain old mess it is to
be alive."
—(Ernesto Mestre,
author of The Lazarus Rumba)
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Transvestite
Memoirs And the Story of the Marquise-Marquis de Banneville
by Abbe de Choisy
Paperback, 142pp
ISBN: 0720609151
Owen, Peter Limited, 1997
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These
authentic memoirs constitute a remarkable document in the history of
transvestism, and provide a first-hand account of manners and morals in
late seventeenth-century French society. In a light, intimate style
praised by Sainte-Beuve, Choisy recounts his scandalous and
entertaining escapades as a transvestite. Reared as a girl by his
ambitious mother, the young Choisy dressed in girls' clothes, wore
earrings and patches, and was admired by 'Monsieur', Louis XIV's
homosexual transvestite brother. As the abbot of Saint Seine, Choisy
continued to delight in extravagantly feminine attire and in the
seduction of young girls, often with the unsuspecting assistance of
their parents. Also included in this volume is the charming
transvestite story of the Marquis-Marquise de Banneville, thought to
have been written by Choisy in collaboration with Charles Perrault.
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Breakfast
on Pluto
by Patrick McCabe
Hardcover, 199pp
ISBN: 0060193409
HarperCollins Publishers, 1998
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Patrick
McCabe creates Mr. Patrick "Pussy" Braden, the enduringly and
endearingly hopeful hero(ine) whose gutty survival and yearning quest
for love resonate in and drive the glimmering, agonizing narrative in
which the Troubles are a distant and immediate echo and refrain. As
Breakfast on Pluto opens, her ladyship, resplendent in housecoat and
head scarf, reclines in Kilburn, London, writing her story for the
elusive psychiatrist Dr. Terence, paring her fingernails as she
reawakens the truth behind her life and the chaos of long-ago days in a
city filled with hatred. Twenty years ago, she escaped her hometown of
Tyreelin, Ireland, fleeing her foster mother, Whiskers - prodigious
Guinness-guzzler, human chimney - and her mad household (endless
doorstep babas!), to begin a new life in London. There, in blousey tops
and satin miniskirts, she plies her trade, often risking life and limb
among the flotsam and jetsam who fill the bars of Piccadilly Circus
("You want love? That what you want, orphaned boy without a home? Then
die for it! Die! Die, sweet Irish!). But suave businessmen and lonely
old women are not the only dangers that threaten Pussy's existence. It
is the 1970s, and fear haunts the streets of London and Belfast as the
critical mass of history builds up, and Pussy is inevitably drawn into
a maelstrom of violence and tragedy destined to blow his fragile soul
asunder.
SYNOPSIS
Patrick McCabe blew critics and readers away with his novel The Butcher
Boy, the story of Francie Brady, a working-class boy in Northern
Ireland whose life becomes a violent storm. That novel won the 1992
Irish Times-Aer Lingus Award and was nominated for Britain's Booker
Prize. McCabe has returned to Northern Ireland with his new novel
Breakfast on Pluto, which in its own zany way is an Irish Breakfast at
Tiffany's, with a goodly dose of "The Crying Game" thrown in. Starring
Patrick "Pussy" Braden, a woman in a man's body who knows how to make
magic in the squalid world around her, Breakfast on Pluto is a literary
event. McCabe is truly coming into his own, and this new book is wild
and wonderful.
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Dear Sir
or Madam?: The Autobiography of a Female-to-Male Transsexual
by Mark Nicholas Rees
Hardcover, 288pp
ISBN: 030433393X
Continuum International Publishing Group, 1997
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Her
perplexed parents saw their daughter as a very awkward adolescent.
Brenda Rees hated being 'awkward', and hated even more her female role
and body. No one seemed to understand that 'she' was really a 'he'.
Young Brenda saw no hope of relieving this conflict; her apparently
unique condition condemned her to isolation, verbal abuse and
misunderstanding. She spent five useless months in a psychiatric
hospital. But at the age of twenty-seven, Brenda discovered the
existence of transsexualism. She was not alone, and it appeared that
help was at hand. Dear Sir or Madam tells of Brenda's struggle through
adolescence and into adulthood - her search for understanding, the long
and tortuous process of becoming Mark, his legal battles and his media
exposure. In becoming himself, Mark was enabled to live a richer and
fuller life than he could ever have done as Brenda. The book is an
account of how it is possible for a known transsexual to be accepted by
society. In 1994 Mark was elected as a Borough Councillor by the people
amongst whom he has lived all his life.
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Handsome
Heroines: Women as Men in Folklore
by Shahrukh Husain
Paperback, 288pp
ISBN: 0385484054
Doubleday & Company, Incorporated, 1996
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Handsome Heroines is a dashing
collection of stories based on classic folktales from around the world
with one thing in common: all of the protagonists are women who
masquerade as men. They dress like men for various reasons - to save
king, country, kin, and their own lives or to get revenge, love, and
power. Sometimes they just do it for fun. After receiving recognition
for their achievements as men, they reveal their true gender,
shattering the myth of the helpless female and thereby transforming
their status as women forever.
Publisher's Weekly
Intrigued since girlhood by the tale "of a blacksmith's daughter who
married a reckless young king, then dressed herself as a man to rescue
him from a wicked princess" Shahrukh Husain, a practicing
psychotherapist, spent years searching for more such stories in folk
and fairytale collections and from storytellers. Handsome Heroines:
Women as Men in Folklore is the culmination of her quest. She says that
in these stories, "women who dressed as men therefore expressed a valid
female fantasybreaking away from the bondage of gender. For a woman,
putting away her female garb was as much about putting away the persona
that came with it."
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M
Butterfly
by David Henry Hwang
Paperback, 112pp
ISBN: 0452262305
Penguin Group (USA), 1989
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Based
on a true story that stunned the world, M. Butterfly opens in the cramped
prison cell where diplomat Rene Gallimard is being held captive by the
French government - and by his own illusions. In the darkness of his
cell he recalls a time when desire seemed to give him wings. A time
when Song Liling, the beautiful Chinese diva, touched him with a love
as vivid, as seductive - and as elusive - as a butterfly.
How could he have known, then, that his ideal woman was, in fact, a spy
for the Chinese government - and a man disguised as a woman? In a
series of flashbacks, the diplomat relives the twenty-year affair from
the temptation to the seduction, from its consummation to the scandal
that ultimately consumed them both. But in the end, there remains only
one truth: Whether or not Gallimard's passion was a flight of fancy, it
sparked the most vigorous emotions of his life.
Only in real life could love become so unreal. And only in such a
dramatic tour de force do we learn how a fantasy can become a man's
mistress - as well as his jailer. M. Butterfly is one of the most
compelling, explosive, and slyly humorous dramas ever to light the
Broadway stage, a work of unrivaled brilliance, illuminating the
conflict between men and women, the differences between East and West,
racial stereotypes - and the shadows we cast around our most cherished
illusions.
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Orlando's
Sleep: An Autobiography of Gender
by Jennifer Spry
Paperback, 200pp
ISBN: 0934678804
New Victoria Publishers, 1997
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An
inspiring story of courage and perseverance toward the hardest goal of
all - self-acceptance. As a child Spry cherished the moments when he
was left alone at home so he could dress up in his mother's clothes. In
adolescence he tried to prove his manhood by competitive sailing and
heavy drinking. When even marriage and fatherhood failed to make a man
of him, John began the long journey towards recognition of herself as
Jennifer, a woman and a lesbian.
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Mom, I
Need to Be a Girl
by Evelyn D. Lindenmuth, Andrew Oswald (Illustrator)
Paperback, 128pp
ISBN: 0966327209
Walter Trook Publishing, 1998
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CUSTOMER
REVIEWS
Keely, A reviewer, July 22, 2002, All about Daniell's Mother
If you're looking for a book related to the subject of transsexuality,
there are many out there. But if you're looking for one of human
essence and a mother's love, one that will shed a few tears, this is
it. There's very little information in this book in terms of
scientific, medical or legal issues regarding transsexualism. It is a
story about a family that sooner or later supported the new lifestyle
of one transsexual woman. Her big brother, David's letter will make you
smile and weep. What's more to say? This one is about 'love', and not
about hormones, brain, nature vs. nurture, sex reassignment surgery,
etc.
Tatiana, October 18, 2001, Best autobiography ever read
This is a great book to read evn though I've only read it online, but
nothing is compared like reading it from the book. I recommend it
personally for any parents who have their kids come up and tell them
how they feel about their gender. Don't ever take for granted what your
child tells you. Here you'll find what you need to learn. Being a
transsexual myself made me understand what my parents are feeling right
now...I wish they knew english well so that they could read the book
and have the knowledge and comprehension what most ts go through and
their emotions.
Natalie, A reviewer, November 28, 2000,
A Must for Transgendered People & Their Families
As a transgendered person myself, I found this book to be compelling
reading and an accurate portrayal of life as a trangendered teenager.
The author is the mother of a trangendered girl and is a biographical
account of her and her new daughter's (Danielle's) experiences with
correcting Danielle's gender. If your child has let you know that they
feel they are the wrong gender, then READ THIS FIRST.
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Trans
Forming Families: Real Stories about Transgendered Loved Ones
by Mary Boenke
Paperback, 160pp
ISBN: 0966327217
Trook, Walter Publishing, 1999
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CUSTOMER
REVIEWS
Philip, a gay married man with two kids., December 21,
1999,
Inspirational and Informative
I am a non-transgendered person interested in learning all I can about
transgendered folks. I was hoping this book would help me understand
the emotional side of the issues faced by transgenders and this book
did not let me down, in fact, I often found myself crying because of
something a spouse or child or parent or sibling had to say about their
transgendered loved one. Inspiring! And there is a wonderful resource
list in the back of the book.
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Queen of Hearts: A Transsexual Romance
Brad Clayton, Deni Carno (Editor)
Product Details:
ISBN: 0966590007
Format: Paperback, 200pp
Pub. Date: May 1999
Publisher: E R Publications
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Even
before meeting Brad Clayton, I had fallen in love with a dog-eared copy
of a part of his manuscript. It was his practice to give copies of his
work in progress to friends, who usually claimed it was stolen or lost
rather than give it up.
Eventually a number of copies were in circulation
among the Los Angeles underground, each a little different than the
other, signs of his ceaseless revision and alteration.
When I finally was able to trace him through a
mutual friend, he was not interested in allowing us to publish it. He
claimed he had spent the last five years working on a major new work
and besides, he was not satisfied with the manuscript.
After relentlessly hounding him and his realization
that boot-leg copies were beginning to appear, he agreed to do a final
editing and allow us to publish The Queen of
Hearts. The editing took another three long
years, but finally we have the definitive copy of what I believe is a
breakthrough book into the world of transsexuality, as well as a
wonderful love story and poetic novel.
SYNOPSIS
The story of Jack and The Queen of Hearts, a straight businessman and
an outrageously beautiful and intelligent transexxual prostitute.
How the meet, how they live, and how they love...A novel that boldly
speaks the truth, tells no lies and makes no apologies...a romance of
two people from different worlds realizing desire in each others arms.
A Psychological profile of a transsexual love affair
written with the sexual directness of Henry Miller, the intimacy of a
Frank Harris confessional, with the passion of Rimbaud and Verlaine.
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I Am My Own Woman:
The Outlaw Life of Charlotte Von Mahlsdorf, Berlin's Most Distinguished
Transvestite
Charlotte Von Mahlsdorf, Jean Hollander (Translator)
Hardcover, 224pp
ISBN: 1573440116
Cleis Press, 1995
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Hailed
by Der Spiegel as speaking to "the fate of a whole generation of German
homosexuals," I Am My Own Woman is the exquisitely written
autobiography of Charlotte von Mahlsdorf, whose lifelong pursuits of
sexual liberty and antique furniture offer a unique perspective on
European history. During World War II, von Mahlsdorf murdered his
father, dubbed himself Charlotte (after his cross-dressing lesbian
aunt's lover) and has lived openly as a transvestite since. Dressed in
high-heeled sandals and a good suit, Charlotte has collected
furnishings from the Grunderzeit for half a century: in the Third
Reich, she "rescued" pieces from Jewish deportees; in the German
Democratic Republic, she protected "bourgeois cultural assets" from the
Stasi. Now well past sixty, a quietly passionate, steadfast and serene
figure, Charlotte shuns makeup, wearing the simplest frocks. The
Grunderzeit Museum - which Charlotte and her friends have defended
against assault from skinheads - has become a symbol for the German
lesbian and gay community.
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She's
Not There: A Life in Two Genders
by Jennifer Finney Boylan
ISBN: 0767914295
Paperback, 320pp
Broadway Books, 2004
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She's Not There is the story of a
person changing genders, the story of a person bearing and finally
revealing a complex secret; above all, it is a love story. Jennifer
Finney Boylan explores the remarkable territory that lies between men
and women, examines changing friendships, and rejoices in the redeeming
power of family. She's Not There is a portrait of a loving marriage -
the love of James for his wife, Grace, and, against all odds, the
enduring love of Grace for the woman who becomes her "sister," Jenny.
She's Not There
explores the dramatic outward changes and unexpected results of life as
a woman: Jenny fights the urge to eat salad, while James consumed
plates of ribs; gone is the stability of "one damn mood, all the damn
time."
While Boylan's own secret was unusual, to say the least, she captures
the universal sense of feeling uncomfortable, out of sorts with the
world, and misunderstood by her peers. Jenny is supported on her
journey by her best friend, novelist Richard Russo, who goes from
begging his friend to "Be a man" (in every sense of the word) to
accepting her as an attractive, buoyant woman. "The most unexpected
thing," Russo writes in his Afterword to the book, "is how in Jenny's
story we recognize our shared humanity."
As James evolves into Jennifer in scenes that are by turns tender,
startling, and witty, a marvelously human perspective emerges on issues
of love, sex, and the fascinating relationship between our physical and
our intuitive selves. Through the clear eyes of a truly remarkable
woman, She's Not There provides a new window on the often confounding
process of accepting ourselves.
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True Selves: Understanding Transsexualism--For
Families, Friends, Coworkers, and Helping Professionals
by Mildred L. Brown, Chloe Ann Rounsley
Paperback, 288pp
ISBN: 0787967025
Wiley, John & Sons, 2003
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Filled
with wisdom and understanding, True Selves paints a vivid portrait of
the conflicts transsexuals face on a daily basis — the courage they
must summon as they struggle to reveal their true being to themselves
and others. This classic resource offers valuable guidance for friends,
families, coworkers, and professionals who are struggling to understand
these people and their situations. Using real life stories, actual
letters, and other compelling examples, True Selves gives a clear
understanding of what it means to be transsexual and offers practical
suggestions for dealing compassionately with these commonly
misunderstood individuals.
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Transmen
and Ftms: Identities, Bodies, Genders, and Sexualities
by Jason Cromwell
Paperback, 201pp
ISBN: 0252068254
University of Illinois Press, 1999
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Writing
as an insider and an anthropologist, Jason Cromwell presents the first
in-depth examination of what it means to be a female-bodied
transperson. Through extensive participant observation and open-ended
interviews, Transmen and FTMs allows female-to-male transsexuals to
speak for themselves and reveal aspects of female gender diversity that
do not fit into the ready-made categories of male and female.
In clarifying how transmen and FTMs define and validate their lives, as
opposed to how society attempts to pigeonhole and belittle them,
Cromwell shows how female-to-male transpeople have been made virtually
invisible by male-dominated discourses. He considers cross-cultural
data on female gender diversity, historical evidence of female-bodied
people who have lived as men, and contemporary transmen and FTMs. He
also addresses how FTMs and transmen are working to challenge the
mental illness model of transness as well as other misconceptions.
Transmen and FTMs seeks to reframe the dialogue about gender identity
and move away from regarding fixed gender categories as normative. By
redefining gender diversity from a manifestation of pathology to a
human condition, Transmen and FTMs promotes a fuller understanding of
these individuals as persons in their own right.
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Gender
Outlaw: On Men, Women and the Rest of Us
by Kate Bornstein
Paperback, 272pp
ISBN: 0679757015
Vintage Books, 1995
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Kate
Bornstein has been through some changes--a former heterosexual male,
one-time Scientologist and IBM salesperson, now a lesbian woman writer
and actress. In this work, she covers everything readers want to know
about gender (but are too confused to ask) and takes a witty, incisive
look at the radical new politics of sexuality and gender. Also includes
Bornstein's play, Hidden: A Gender.
Part coming-of-age story, part mind-altering manifesto on gender and
sexuality, coming directly to you from the life experiences of a
transsexual woman, Gender Outlaw breaks all the rules and leaves the
reader forever changed.26 black-and-white illustrations.
Library Journal
Bornstein considers herself a gender outlaw because she breaks the laws
of nature. A former heterosexual male and now a lesbian woman, Bay Area
Reporter writer, and actor who has appeared on talk shows, she has
completed the transsexual process, including surgery. As she considers
her workplace the theater, about a third of this autobiographical work
is devoted to queer theater, including her play, Hidden: A Gender. The
black-and-white photos were not seen but are apparently a significant
part of this informative and humorous book.
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My
Husband Wears My Clothes: Crossdressing from the Perspective of a Wife
by Peggy J. Rudd
Paperback, 148pp
ISBN: 096267625X
PM Publishers, Inc., 2003
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My
Husband Wears My Clothes is the first book to be written by the wife of
a crossdresser. Dr. Rudd addresses many of the questions frequently
asked by the spouses, families, and friends of crossdressers and
candidly explores therelated emotions that range from frustration to
elation.
Dr. Rudd is a helping professional who reaches out empathetically to
all crossdressers and their families. Through her example as the wife
of a crossdresser, counselor, and lecturer, she demonstrates that total
acceptance is both possible and rewarding.
SYNOPSIS
My Husband Wears My Clothes is the first book to be written by the wife
of a crossdresser. "Clothes don't make the man" has a new meaning. Dr.
Rudd addresses many of the questions frequently asked by the spouses,
partners, friends, and family members of men who cross gender lines and
candidly explores the emotions that range from frustration to elation.
This book has been read by hundreds of thousands of crossdressers, the
significant people in their lives and helping professionals worldwide
and has been featured on numerous television, radio and newspaper shows
and articles.
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Crossdressing
With Dignity: The Case For Transcending Gender Lines
by Peggy J. Rudd
Paperback, 188pp
ISBN: 0962676268
PM Publishers, Inc., 2003
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The
Scottish man wears a kilt, but is society ready for men who openly
express femininity? Can men transcend gender lines and maintain their
sense of self-worth and dignity? These are the questions that were
asked in a survey of over 800 crossdressers worldwide used as the basis
of this book. From an early age boys are taught to follow stereotypes
of maleness. When a desire to express femininity exerts a greater force
than the desire to live up to the appropriate image for masculinity,
conflict may develop. This provocative book addresses these emotions
and conflicts and provides solutions.
SYNOPSIS
The Scottish man wears a kilt, but is society ready for men who openly
express femininity? Can men transcend gender lines and maintain their
sense of self-worth and dignity? These are the questions that were
asked in a survey of over 800 crossdressers worldwide used as the basis
of this book. From an early age boys are taught to follow stereotypes
of maleness. When a desire to express femininity exerts a greater force
than the desire to live up to the appropriate image for masculinity,
conflict may develop. This provocative book addresses these emotions
and conflicts and provides solutions.
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Becoming
a Visible Man
by Jamison Green
Paperback, 264pp
ISBN: 082651457X
Vanderbilt University Press, 2004
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SYNOPSIS
A California transsexual activist offers insights into the challenges
of gender dysphoria. Born with a female body, and in a lesbian parent
relationship prior to sex reassignment surgery, Jamieson begins his
frank personal and analytic account by asking how we know our sex. He
discusses the complexities of the answer for those whose sex and gender
are mismatched; medical options; psychosocial and legal implications;
and media representations of "transpeople." A sociologist introduces
Jamieson's identity quest as a core human struggle. Annotation
©2004 Book News, Inc., Portland, OR
Library Journal
A leading advocate for transsexuality and the author of the "Visible
Man" column on the web (www.planetout.com/people/columns/ green), Green
argues that the transsexuality movement is a struggle for fundamental
human rights. The author is a female-to-male transsexual who deploys
his autobiography to illustrate political points about gender and sex
diversity. He asserts that transsexuals seek to balance their gender
identity (an abiding sense of oneself as a man or woman) with their
physical bodies. Like recent literature on the history of the body,
this text differentiates biological sex, gender, and sexual
orientation. Green's call for tolerance is important, but he fails to
answer the concerns of sympathetic gender theorists. For example, Green
asserts illogically that gender identity is both a naturally occurring
"essence" and a mutable social construction. And despite Green's
repeated denials, his arguments inadvertently reify sexual stereotypes.
The result is less scholarly than Joanne Meyerowitz's How Sex Changed:
A History of Transsexuality in the United States yet less scandalous
than Edward Ball's Peninsula of Lies: A True Story of Mysterious Birth
and Taboo Love. Recommended with reservation for public libraries and
undergraduate libraries. Katherine C. Adams, Bowdoin Coll. Lib.,
Brunswick, ME Copyright 2004 Reed Business Information.
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Finding
the Real Me: True Tales of Sex and Gender Diversity
by Tracie O'Keefe, Katrina Fox (Editor)
Paperback, 293pp
ISBN: 0787965472
Wiley, John & Sons, 2003
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Finding the Real Me is an
extraordinary collection of real-life stories told by a wide-range of
sex and gender diverse people. These healing tales of struggle and
transformation reveal just how creative, resourceful, and adventurous
the individuals in this community can be and also helps to bridge the
gap between ignorance and understanding. As each incredible story
unfolds we become part of the author's journey to self-acceptance and
join the celebration of their new life. Page by page, we laugh, cry,
and learn to appreciate these wonderful courageous people and the road
they walked to be their true selves.
Finding the Real Me is a landmark book that encourages us to embrace
diversity, to never fear our differences, and to remain always in awe
of our amazing possibilities.
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The Transition of Sinful Sadie
by Dann Hazel
Paperback: 380 pages, $19.95
Writers Club Press, 2002
ISBN 0-595-21170-4
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A
riveting exploration of fanaticism and terrorism.
Dann Hazel’s riveting psychological thriller explodes with passion and
conflict as three people “in transition” struggle—with each other, with
a culture that misunderstands them, and with themselves—to find comfort
in a world in which they do not belong. Paul Lyles (a.k.a. Sadie
Bedenbaugh), a male-to-female transsexual, fights desperately to remain
in a deteriorating relationship—and his upcoming surgery certainly
won’t help. Wally Bedenbaugh, a closeted gay televangelist, finds
himself on a collision course with his faith, his spouse and a domestic
terrorist. And Duncan Trace, a religious extremist losing touch with
reality, follows a murderous path as he plots the destruction of a
media empire.
Southern dis-Comfort and shenanigans galore...
This novel poses an interesting and painful question for gay men. If
you had a lover for eight years and then he wanted to become a "she"
would you be willing to give up your gay self-identity and continue in
what would then be a heterosexual relationship? Okay, what if you were
the head of a phenomenally successful televangelist empire and had
millions of followers who adored both you as the minister and your
"wife" who was really a man—would you then want to risk losing it all
if you broke up with "her"? The
Transition of Sinful Sadie has to be one of the most unique,
absorbing, and entertaining novels I have read in a long time. It has
all the intrigue of Jim and Tammy Faye Bakker's ruined empire, the
trappings of a mystery-suspense thriller, a whole rafter full of
interesting and twisted characters, as well as a heart as deep as the
South. How all the elements play out as this masterful writer weaves
his tale is certainly not predictable, and you find yourself rooting
for the darndest people. Every time you begin a new segment of the
story or start a new chapter, you'll do so with one eye shut, one eye
wide open, afraid to look and afraid not to. Almost any one of the
characters could hold center stage in the title. Each one is finely
drawn with his/her own unique traits. Even the villain is at times a
sympathetic character. Well worth the read and deserves great
recognition as a truly unique work of fiction.
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