Night Diving
by Michelene Esposito
Spinsters Ink 2002
228 pgs $14.00
ISBN: 1883523524
In Rose Salino’s life, bad things happen in threes: she’s dumped by her
lover, loses her job (because she worked with her lover at a restaurant
she had always considered “ours” – which wasn’t), and then her
grandmother dies necessitating a flight from San Francisco to her
childhood home in Long Island, NY. And so begins a journey in the
present as well as in the past.
Rose’s first person tale is bookended by events in the present, while
the bulk of the novel tells the story of her youth. In a crisp, fresh,
and often funny voice, she tells of her early struggles with her
manic-depressive mother, of feeling alone and outside the pale during
her school years, and most of all, of her friendship with Jessie who
not only had a screwed up mother similar to Rose’s, but also carried
hidden wounds of traumatic abuse.
Much of Rose’s description of her childhood is moving, and with her
fine prose, Esposito never lapses into melodrama. “I was nine the first
time my mother got sick, leaving me with an emptiness that clawed at me
like some little trapped animal. It was as if some faceless man had
taken her away in the middle of the night and because I could not yet
feel where she ended and I began, had taken me with them. I awoke one
morning to find her shell and a hugeness that grew louder and louder
and more panicky inside me. The first aloneness” (p. 34).
The way Rose attempts to make sense of her world, to grow up, to find a
place for herself is by terms touching and comical. I laughed out loud
when Rose describes her friend’s enormous Newfoundland dog: “She was, I
was sure, some mix of black bear and water buffalo, definitely bigger
and heavier than me, with long black fur and a mouth I envisioned
snapping off my leg in one jagged bloody chomp” (p. 22).
Esposito has a delightful sense of timing as well as the ability to
evoke character, particularly Rose’s, in ways that kept me glued to the
book. For instance, at her grandmother’s funeral, she nervously
connects back up with childhood friend Jessie, and thinks this: “I
can’t even tell you why I’m so damn nervous except that I don’t know
where to start. You can’t start from where you left off because that
was a dozen years ago and you end up feeling like William Randolph
Hearst clutching a sled, rocking back and forth in some dark room,
whispering, ‘Rosebud, Rosebud’” (p. 116). Esposito’s ability to
juxtapose flashes of comedy into the story is illuminating in the way
that unexpected lightning allows for brief glimpses into dark places.
By the time the events of the past catch up with the quandaries and
disasters of the present, it’s clear that Rose has the ability to rise
above her circumstances—but will she make the right choices in order to
do so? She has the possibility of a life with Jessie, but can she let
go of her hang-ups and really communicate with the people she loves?
“Love is knowing a person’s tender spots, the places where the skin is
transparent, not fully formed, like the clear membrane that holds a
yolk round even after you separate it from the white. Love is standing
guard over a beloved’s yolk” (p. 219). Musings like that are just
lovely and endeared Rose to me forever. How she gets to the point where
she can stand over someone else’s yolk, much less her own, makes for a
wonderful story. This is a book that shouldn’t be missed.
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Frontiers
by Michael Jensen
Pocket Books, 2000
$14.95/312 pgs
ISBN: 0671027212
John Chapman, a 24 year old town-dweller who is hiding that he is
homosexual, ends up on the run in November 1797. He’s had an affair
with a Major in the British Army and been found out. From the
unexpected violence of the opening pages to his journey—first in Lower
Canada, then Pennsylvania and onward as he travels West hoping for his
own land claim—it is clear that Chapman is an innocent. He has no
frontier skills, no horse, no weapons, and some serious doubts about
his courage, most of which were implanted by his abusive father. But he
does have determination to try to make it to an outpost to stake his
claim or die trying. If he can make it to the Warren Outpost and get
free supplies and a parcel of his own land, he thinks his troubles will
be over.
Despite the snow and ice, he manages to cross the Allegheny Plateau,
but is lost, physically spent, and out of food. Days—perhaps hours—from
death, he comes upon a cabin in the wilderness where he is reluctantly
taken in by the threatening and mysterious Daniel McQuay.
From this point on, the characters he meets (Daniel, George Chase in
Franklin, the solitary Indian woman Gwennie, and the charmingly
handsome Palmer Baxter) all have a huge impact on his life. Over the
long winter, Daniel teaches him survival skills, but he wants something
and eventually scares Chapman away. George Chase then lets him stay in
a vacant cabin, but he wants something. Chapman doesn’t know what
Gwennie wants. It’s clear Palmer wants Chapman, but our hero isn’t
about to succumb to the kind of love and attraction that has already
gotten him in trouble and cost a man his life. Despite the fact that
Chapman manages to resist Palmer’s charms initially, he still has to
deal with small-mindedness, sexism, racism, the ignorant swath of
compassionless “Christians,” bad weather, and new enemies. And old
enemies. Lurking in the midst of Chapman’s seemingly safe world is an
evil enemy who has the capacity to turn his world upside down and who,
of course, does just that. Injuries, deaths, and intrigue ensue, and I
was at the proverbial edge of my seat through most of the last half of
the book.
The tale is wonderfully told. Jensen’s dialogue is fresh and realistic,
giving an accurate flavor of late 18th century while not overwhelming
the reader with colloquialisms. Chapman has a sense of humor,
especially about his failure to be a tough, he-man type. He
displays a gentleness and humanity many of the settlers lack that made
me identify with and love him. His narrative of the weather and
environment is balanced perfectly as in this lovely description:
“Lightning flashed against the darkening sky, giving me an excuse to
turn away. Already dark clouds the color of ugly bruises and hateful
intentions were closer, bearing down on us as surely as winter on
autumn. Occasional gusts of wind rumbled own the valley rippling
through the treetops, their leaves trembling suddenly in the sunlight
like a million green-winged birds in flight” (p. 263).
Jensen has crafted a compelling story the likes of which I have never
read before. I am not aware of any historical drama/adventure/romance
based upon such a well-rounded and mesmerizing gay character. John
Chapman’s first person account is riveting. This is bildungsroman of
the highest order, a story of love, lust, greed, and striving set
against the unforgiving American frontier. I can’t recommend it highly
enough!
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Gay Spirituality: The Role of Gay Identity in the
Transformation of Human Consciousness
by Toby Johnson
Lethe Press
2004
$16.95/280 pgs
ISBN: 1590210220
On a daily basis, gay people are inundated with negative messages in
every realm: social, political, cultural, and religious—especially
religious. Many, if not most, mainstream churches have deliberate
proscriptions against homosexuality, and with all that we’ve seen
lately in the news, there seems to be no end in sight to the strife.
Despite the fact that each year scientists offer more proof that sexual
orientation is genetic (i.e. that’s the way God made us), many
churchgoers and clergy discriminate against gay people.
Lost in the midst of the polemics and condemnations are millions of
non-heterosexual people trying to make their way in a world where
matters of the Spirit are land mines and the path of that same Spirit
does not always appear accessible. In his marvelous new book on this
topic, Toby Johnson writes: “There is a Sufi saying: ‘If the rose knew
what the gardener’s care would result in come spring, it would joyfully
bend to the pruning knife.’ Gay people experience pruning in late
childhood and early adulthood. We realize the truth of our orientation
and have to give up familial and cultural expectations of what our
lives will be. Often we experience ridicule and ostracism by
schoolmates and peers, along with rejection and disapproval by parents.
Even if we grow up feeling it is okay to be gay, we experience
confusion and trauma because we will not follow in the path that our
parents, teachers, and role models have laid before us” (p. 239) It’s
this very phenomenon that tends to alienate gay people from churches
and from the life-force of the Spirit.
For gay men, in particular, Toby Johnson’ book GAY SPIRITUALITY is a
lifesaver. Part of Johnson’s thesis is that gays are very much
“Outsiders” in American society, and because of that, gay people
possess valuable knowledge and inspiration about the true nature of the
Spirit. Gay people experience the world differently than others do,
including being more aware of the polarities. Rather than exclusion
from the world of God, religion, and spirituality, Johnson calls for
all people to listen to and heed the wisdom gay people have to offer.
Because human knowledge and understanding continues to grow, Johnson
wants any person struggling with gay issues to know that we are in the
middle of a huge transformation of human consciousness—a major paradigm
shift. Because of this, there is much to learn and room for growth, all
of which is likely to give anyone struggling with issues of the Spirit
a fair amount of hope.
Drawing from world religions, the Hero Cycle, Jungian thought, and
dozens of other sources, Johnson discusses religion, spirituality, and
sexuality from a variety of angles. With his background as a teacher,
theologian, ex-Roman Catholic monk, and writer, this book has much to
offer any person exploring spiritual paths. Ultimately, I found myself
resonating strongly while reading part of the conclusion: “Being gay is
a blessing… This discovery is an important part of spiritual
maturation. As we understand how blessed we are, we begin to put out
good vibes. When we realize that being gay is drawing a long straw in
this life, we can forgive the world. We can accept things as they are
with all the pain and loss that goes with being human. And when we do
that we change the world” (p. 259).
It is clear from this book’s premise (and that of the companion volume,
GAY PERSPECTIVE: Things
Our Homosexuality Tells Us About the Nature of
God and the Universe), that Johnson is offer viable and
life-changing
alternatives for people, both gay and straight, to understand the
search for a meaningful spirituality. This is a wonderful book to
assist in that search.
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