The Poet
Looks at Damages...
Damages
by Bazhe
iUniverse Star, 2004
ISBN 0-595-29714-5
Paperback, 324 pages.
Occasionally there comes a book that distinctly impresses—by its
language, by the scope of its body, by the depth of its telling, by the
awareness of its voice. Damages
is such a book, and Bazhe, its author, is such a voice. Bazhe speaks,
“...Our lives are glassy...yet blurry and brittle without the honesty
of the light, and very damaging without the Truth as the Sun.” I am
compelled to turn the page and enter Bazhe’s world, compelled to seek
Bazhe.
Damages is
compelling. It is an autobiographical memoir, recounting significant
events in the life of its author. More than a telling of his story, it
is an experiencing of his life, along¬side Bazhe. He allows his
reader a closeness, an intimacy, not often seen in print. His voice is
calm and clear, imparting strength and assurance. Damages is a work of artistic
seduction; Bazhe, the seducer; I, his reader, the seduced. I find
myself unable to distinguish the writer from the work.
Bazhe’s writing is crisp and articulate; his work,
well crafted. From our initial encounter, at his home in New Jersey as
he receives a telephone call from his Mother, informing him of his
Father’s death, Bazhe is a warm and congenial companion. He welcomes me
into his life, at a time usually considered crisis, and he introduces
me to his family, in very much the manner of a trusted, innermost
friend. I find myself in unfamiliar surroundings, in a land where East
meets West. An imperfect image of great empire—Macedonia, Alexander the
Great—drifts through the story, a background of dust on the wind swept
into the present. Amid persons who are strangers to me, Bazhe keeps me
closely at his side, confiding in me while putting me at ease, making
of me his intimate. I am drawn closer to Bazhe.
Details begin to emerge, a kaleidoscopic piecing
together of Bazhe’s life; rather, of events of Bazhe’s life that paint
an ever-enlarging picture that spreads across a deepening canvas. The
strokes are bold and the colors vivid. This is not a static scene. As
images form, they skew; the glass through which I am seeing shifts, the
images shifting with it. Things are not as they seem; what is seen is
merely perceived in one light, much as the sun passing overhead renders
a scene and its images in moving patterns of light and dark. Shades of
meaning within changing patterns reflect Bazhe, resonate with a sense
of Bazhe’s life.
Why are we compelled to tell our stories; why are we
compelled to listen? Do we seek to connect with or to separate from
some primitive neurosis? Or, simply do we hide within the nakedness of
another, calming our fear and assuaging our anxiety through the skin of
another? I plunge my hand alongside that of Bazhe into the rich earth
of a neglected garden. Together, our hand reaches deeply into the
earth, until suddenly we grasp the root of a large tree. This is the
garden, once kept pristine, where we could not hide from Father; the
garden where naked before Father we first experience a strange, white
fluid shot onto our body from his.... Father, who could alter his
temper from anger to mirth as easily as he could grant or withhold
favor or punishment, seemingly at his whim; Father, to whom all
obedience was demanded and given, and through whom reward and
forgiveness seemed hung from a thread.
A childhood seen by those on the outside as one of
privilege and prestige, but a childhood experienced as one of isolation
and loneliness—the glass is brittle and the image distorts. Mother, at
whose bosom there is warmth and refuge, nurtures and encourages, and
forges a bond that becomes a bridge into and out of a world that
confines and imprisons. The child, a boy of such beauty that for the
amusement of others bets are laid as to his sex, is baffled and amused
as his garments are stripped amid the flow of cash. A time much later,
a wealthy man for his amusement will seduce the boy’s gender and
attempt to have him surgically emasculated. In this deceit, the boy
makes off with the jewels.
Mother is diagnosed with cancer, her body making war
on itself, even as the people of Bazhe’s ancient homeland make war on
each other. Chaos is the rule, greed and corruption the exception. The
search for his biological mother ends and Bazhe spills out the story of
his life to her. She, Mila, is for me an intrusion. Yet, it is through
her Bazhe’s story is told, through her Bazhe’s life began; even though
she can claim no part of Bazhe’s life. While Bazhe pours out his story
in an upstairs room, in a downstairs room Kostadina’s life is wasting.
It is a strange juxtaposition, another bending of the glass—the woman,
who as a girl gave birth to a child fathered by an unknown assailant,
secluded in the house of the woman who cradled and cared for the child
from infant to man; the woman who gave Bazhe life, the woman who gave
him away, learning more of the inner man than the woman who watched him
grow from infant to man. There is no clear horizon. The vista is
suspended above death.
I am drawn deeply within Bazhe, as smoke from the
cigarette inhaled at his lips. Bazhe surrounds me, as smoke exhaled
from his mouth. Still, I am not satisfied. I have a hunger for more of
Bazhe. The subtext of Damages
draws me into deeper dialog; the metaphor, one of an outdated religion
and an out-of-touch church clinging to a primitive, patriarchal theism
irrelevant to the Twenty First Century.1
The Almighty Father is dead. During His decline,
Mother assumed greater power. Now, Mother is dying, her body corrupt
and feeding on itself. Those near her are self-seeking, in their greed
stripping her frail body of trinkets before she has become a corpse.
The old traditions that cemented the fabric of society are no longer
functional. People pay lip service, more from habit; but no one still
believes. The business of life buckles under a burden of behemoth
bureaucracy. Society is breaking up, factions pitted against one
another by reason of presumed differences rather than coming together
under assumed commonality. The Son, stepping boldly into life and
embracing the fullness of Self, expands into the fullness of Being. The
Virgin is finally seen as an icon, an idol of unfounded adoration.
What remains is Bazhe and his sense of love,
constant amid chaos. The true gold could not be taken from Mother. Damages is a powerful presence, a
personal journey that demonstrates anew the unique spiritual depth that
can arise from the gay experience. Bazhe is a voice that explores that
spiritual depth. His talent carries an honesty and a strength that
commands attention. I am caught in reflection of Bazhe’s words, “My
vision of love is not an experiment.... [O]ur teeth have punctured each
other’s bodies.... No one can kill us in love.”
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1. Insight into the Religious Right and Moral
Majority, relative to society and particularly as impacting the GLBT
community, is focused by John Shelby Spong in “Rescuing the Bible from
Fundamentalism,” and in “Why Christianity Must Change or Die.”
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Editor's Note: The following "Epic" poem is
a tale of love and
loss, told through a metaphorical ship, her crew, and the sea.
The
first three stanzas are a metrical but non-rhyming prologue serving to
introduce the reminiscences and state of mind of the narrator.
Then
follows the body of the work, skillfully rendered in rhyme and meter,
demonstrating what such poetry can become in gifted hands.
Larry
Dean Hamilton
Wreck of the
G.D.K.
I’ll always return to the summer sun
And the sweltering mask of earth’s hot breath
And a wind that scorches sunny seas.
I’ll hold in my hands my heart ripped open
And hope to receive one grain of salt more.
One time before when I thought I was home
I dying lay stretched ’cross a great salt plain
Where dream never dared hope water would join
A dry cracked surface ’neath bleached white bones,
Nor dared hope dream sweet drops of dew.
Alone with no thought of a morrow
No wish to see a new sun dawn;
Eyes grown glassy, searching no more
And a heart bleeding blood snow white and cold
To a soul pulsating no more for life,
A shape I took at first to be
The ship of death come now for me
Sailed in on searing, scorching steam
And hailed me board for lands undream’d.
That ship, for me, new life and destiny.
A boy made up her one-man crew—
Blond hair trimm’d short and eyes so blue,
He welcomed me aboard with a friendly smile
And beckoned me cast off all the while—
With me on board she now had two.
From deck we hoisted her mainsail white
In a burst of sunlight dazzling bright;
From the center yardarm where made fast,
Creaking, groaning, crawling skyward on the mast,
The sail filled full of wind’s own might.
Her crew to the bow side by side
Making ready to set sail with the tide
Hoisted high her flying jib
Made fast with a line to a forward rib—
And the salt air called from oceans wide.
Lines cast off and the anchor weighed,
Our journey began ’neath a sky of jade.
The blond first mate our ship he steered;
Topside went I to the mast I feared
Soon should break lest lines be payed.
Water so blue and the sky so clear
And hardly a ripple was there to hear.
Our mainsail caught the wind with ease
And the forward jib was the first to tease
The breeze that washed away all fear.
Our ship on a forward course set straight
Sailed with ease through an unseen gate;
With a steady breeze from the South that blew,
The blond and I, her crew, were two
On board who knew no hate.
The sun rose high up in the sky
And long we watched it pass us by
Til soon it fell too near the sea
And play’d its last with rays of glee
To end the day without a sigh.
Our ship lay still beneath the moon
And drank full deep the sea’s perfume.
It filled each drop of soft night’s dew
With silvered love we knew was true
And, like a rose, almost in bloom.
Our cheeks grew tan as on we sailed
Across the home where life first dwelled;
By noon a song, at night a prayer,
And every dawn our bodies bare
Refreshed themselves as day prevailed.
Our course was straight full many a day
Before we saw the planets’ sway
And felt the tide beneath us swell
Into a thing more like a hell
That tears and burns as childlike play.
Too deep in life were we to quit
That ship whose log we both had writ;
To late to turn that ship around
Retracing winds now long since found
Engulfed in those that did submit.
Too far away were we to turn
That ship to where our hearts did yearn
And seek the port we left behind,
Upon whose shore we had designed
A thing we could not now unlearn.
The sea’s own might and wrath became
A thund’ring howl that fears no name,
And soon as splintering our mast
Would strike at life, not first nor last,
For all and one are but the same.
With hemp we lashed us to the deck
And from each side our eyes last met
While reaching hands grasped only dark
As with a crash she split apart
And left alone each piece of wreck.
And tossed and turned and rolled at will
Upon the sea I loved until
At last my wounds her heart had stung,
She gently lapped them with her tongue
And shed a tear; then all was still.
My weary soul she pushed ashore
And quietly left me when she tore
Away the ropes which held me fast.
I slept awhile and then at last
Bewept the love I would see no more.
I came to know the fear of love
That sees below while we’re above.
The search to find the other part,
If he lives still, commands my heart;
And search the sea I must, I know.
For our romance, it was the sea.
She courted us, and her did we.
And if we three again should meet,
A stronger love we’d surely greet—
She’d join her hands with him and me.
Wreck of the G.D.K. Copyright © 1969, 2004 Larry Dean Hamilton.
All rights reserved. Printed and used by special permission of the
author.
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